Posts Tagged: reading


21
Nov 08

Library Friday: Review of Twilight

 

Twilight:  Ok, I begrudgingly admit, I’m not cool anymore.  (Ok.  I’ll even more begrudgingly admit that I probably was never cool in the first place).  Would you believe I had never heard of this book until about a month ago?   At just 25, I have apparantly left the realm of the trendy hip-and-happening fad crazes of life and zoned into mommyhoodishness where I’m so clueless about the world that I’d probably stare at you blankly if you mentioned the name Tina Fey. (Ok, not really, exaggeration for emphasis, but you get my point.)  So anyway, with the hyped up book-to-film movie “Twilight” opening tonight, right now as I speak at 12 am EST, (with Harry Potter 4′s Cedric Diggory as the main lead!), I just had to read the book to see if it lived up to the hype.  So this past Tuesday I scored a copy from the Library (a miracle in itself because the waiting list was 40 deep – a reallyreallyreally nice librarian snuck me a just released copy), brought it home, and finished the 500something page book this morning at 4 am.  It took me 6 and a half hours to read it (hurray for babies who sleep through the night, right?).

 Ok, so where do I start?  It was a fun read.  But it was just that.  A fun read. It was not better than Harry Potter as I had heard, but really, Vampire romance in Washington state and pubescent wizardry in a fantasy Londonesque world just can’t parallel.  So what is this Twilight thing?  It’s the first book in Stephanie Meyer’s series, and the main character – Isabella “Bella” Swan – chooses to move back to her dad’s dreary, always raining Washington State hometown of Forks after her mother remairies a semi-pro ball player in Arizona.  All of the typical small town plot lines are developed (small high school, everyone knows everyone, word spreads fast, etc.), but oddly enough, she ends up being extremely popular right from the start (something I find VERY hard to believe for a brooding, dorky, clumsy, inept, brainy, shy, non-talkative, pale 17 year old loner).  Popular with everyone except for one group of “siblings” in the school who are inhumanly beautiful and keep to themselves.  In fact, the youngest, Edward Cullen, seems to hate her from the beginning….that is, until he saves her life by stopping a car (that’s about to crush her) with his bare hands.  There’s such a powerful draw between the both of them, but the more they are drawn to each other, the more he warns her how dangerous their relationship is.  Why dangerous?  He won’t say.  But the urge to be together is just far too powerful.  She finally pieces together who they are, and gets to meet the entire vampire family like any normal girlfriend would.  Only thing is, they’re vampires. Good “vegetarian” vampires, but vampires nonetheless.  

Even worse, the draw Edward feels is because her blood smells so good and he “vants to sock her vlood”.  :::rolls eyes:::: It only gets worse (as in worse for her) from there as a “bad” vampire tracker discovers her one day during a game of vampire baseball (I guess it’s their version of quiddich?) – and it’s up to Edward and his family to keep her safe.

Bad vampires vs. good vampires, vampires who could go out in the sun without melting, vampires who lived in normal homes, didn’t sleep in coffins, or anything like that….the whole entire vampire myth was…uh…revamped for the book.

All in all, the plot lines seemed far too contrived. I found myself at many points laughing aloud at how absurd some parts were (something I never did in Harry Potter).  It had only one or two psychologically intense (as in, it really gave you something to think about) moments in it.  Yet there were never any earth shattering quotes such as when Dumbledore told Harry “We must all face the choice between what is right and what is easy.”.

 One thing for sure though, Stephanie Meyer did a great job in creating the “feeling” of the irresistable pull between the two main characters – and it played on many a girl’s teen fantasies (doesn’t all young adolescent girls secretly want a dangerous-but-good intelligent boy with inhuman strength and perfect Greek god beauty to sweep them off their feet?? no?  ok maybe that was just me.).  The chemistry created between the two characters – and the feelings it invokes in readers – is probably what sent this book into hyper frenzy cult status.  The book itself is not great, but the “feeling” it gives you is.  It’s Juliet and Romeo all over.  Tragic love with a bite (pun intended).  The best thing is the characters actually remain chaste and it took them forever just to even have a first kiss (ala Mulder and Sculley type of anticipation).

I can already tell from the trailers that the movie is a bit different than the book.  But that’s ok, I suppose.  No movie can ever compete with the book (‘cept for the 1939 film adaptation of Wuthering Heights, but that’s another story).  I’m not sure if I’m going to read the 2nd book in the saga (New Moon) because really, the ending of the story didn’t leave me full of anticipation.  It’s really easy to guess which direction plot lines are going to take – Bella gets hurt, Edward saves her, the two are irrisistably drawn together, Bella gets hurt, Edward saves her, etc.  The characters have no depth.  It’s as if Meyer didn’t have any imagination left after a third way through the book.  Perhaps that’s why I like JK Rowling so much – you could never tell what was going to develop next in HP.  Twilight just didn’t “leave me hanging” like it should have.

And…actually, if I’m being fully honest….except for the wonderful magnetism that eminated from the main characters and the irresistable urge to keep turning the pages again and again, I thought the book was silly.  

So why then did I have so much fun reading it and was drawn into the enchantment?  I dunno.  I liked it emotionally.  Litararily, I didn’t.  I’m not the only ambivalent reader either. Just read the other
low starred reviews on amazon to see what I mean.

So anyway, this has been quite a long review.  I do have some other books in my library bag this week but I hadn’t got around to reading them yet.  

I’ll have more by next week.. :)

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So what’s in your bag?  Play along with me!  What are you currently reading from your library?  If you don’t have any books out currently, share one you’ve read in the past.  Just write up a library post on your blog, then come back here and post a comment with the link to your post.  I’d love to know what everyone else is reading. :)


11
Jul 08

Quotes on Reading

The worth of a book is to be measured by what you can carry away from it. ~James Bryce

Anyone who says they have only one life to live must not know how to read a book. ~Author Unknown

A good book on your shelf is a friend that turns its back on you and remains a friend. ~Author Unknown

A good book should leave you… slightly exhausted at the end. You live several lives while reading it. ~William Styron, interview, Writers at Work, 1958

There is a great deal of difference between an eager man who wants to read a book and a tired man who wants a book to read. ~G.K. Chesterton

Many people, other than the authors, contribute to the making of a book, from the first person who had the bright idea of alphabetic writing through the inventor of movable type to the lumberjacks who felled the trees that were pulped for its printing. It is not customary to acknowledge the trees themselves, though their commitment is total. ~Forsyth and Rada, Machine Learning

If there’s a book you really want to read but it hasn’t been written yet, then you must write it. ~Toni Morrison

A book is the only place in which you can examine a fragile thought without breaking it, or explore an explosive idea without fear it will go off in your face. It is one of the few havens remaining where a man’s mind can get both provocation and privacy. ~Edward P. Morgan

A good book has no ending. ~R.D. Cumming

I would be most content if my children grew up to be the kind of people who think decorating consists mostly of building enough bookshelves. ~Anna Quindlen, “Enough Bookshelves,” New York Times, 7 August 1991

Books are the quietest and most constant of friends; they are the most accessible and wisest of counselors, and the most patient of teachers. ~Charles W. Eliot

Always read something that will make you look good if you die in the middle of it. ~P.J. O’Rourke

Outside of a dog, a book is man’s best friend. Inside of a dog it’s too dark to read. ~Groucho Marx

The man who does not read good books has no advantage over the man who can’t read them. ~Mark Twain, attributed

A book reads the better which is our own, and has been so long known to us, that we know the topography of its blots, and dog’s ears, and can trace the dirt in it to having read it at tea with buttered muffins. ~Charles Lamb, Last Essays of Elia, 1833

Let books be your dining table,
And you shall be full of delights
Let them be your mattress
And you shall sleep restful nights.
~Author Unknown

I find television to be very educating. Every time somebody turns on the set, I go in the other room and read a book. ~Groucho Marx

I know every book of mine by its smell, and I have but to put my nose between the pages to be reminded of all sorts of things. ~George Robert Gissing

A book is like a garden carried in the pocket. ~Chinese Proverb

There’s nothing to match curling up with a good book when there’s a repair job to be done around the house. ~Joe Ryan

Books let us into their souls and lay open to us the secrets of our own. ~William Hazlitt

My test of a good novel is dreading to begin the last chapter. ~Thomas Helm

A dirty book is rarely dusty. ~Author Unknown

As a rule reading fiction is as hard to me as trying to hit a target by hurling feathers at it. I need resistance to celebrate! ~William James

You know you’ve read a good book when you turn the last page and feel a little as if you have lost a friend. ~Paul Sweeney

It is what you read when you don’t have to that determines what you will be when you can’t help it. ~Oscar Wilde

A book must be an ice-axe to break the seas frozen inside our soul. ~Franz Kafka

Lord! when you sell a man a book you don’t sell just twelve ounces of paper and ink and glue – you sell him a whole new life. Love and friendship and humour and ships at sea by night – there’s all heaven and earth in a book, a real book. ~Christopher Morley

Books serve to show a man that those original thoughts of his aren’t very new after all. ~Abraham Lincoln

The smallest bookstore still contains more ideas of worth than have been presented in the entire history of television. ~Andrew Ross

I’ve never known any trouble that an hour’s reading didn’t assuage. ~Charles de Secondat, Baron de la Brède et de Montesquieu, Pensées Diverses

To sit alone in the lamplight with a book spread out before you, and hold intimate converse with men of unseen generations – such is a pleasure beyond compare. ~Kenko Yoshida

Fiction reveals truths that reality obscures. ~Jessamyn West

I suggest that the only books that influence us are those for which we are ready, and which have gone a little farther down our particular path than we have yet got ourselves. ~E.M. Forster, Two Cheers for Democracy, 1951

TV. If kids are entertained by two letters, imagine the fun they’ll have with twenty-six. Open your child’s imagination. Open a book. ~Author Unknown

People say that life is the thing, but I prefer reading. ~Logan Pearsall Smith, Trivia, 1917

Books had instant replay long before televised sports. ~Bern Williams

How many a man has dated a new era in his life from the reading of a book. ~Henry David Thoreau, Walden

To choose a good book, look in an inquisitor’s prohibited list. ~John Aikin

Books – the best antidote against the marsh-gas of boredom and vacuity. ~George Steiner

In reading, a lonely quiet concert is given to our minds; all our mental faculties will be present in this symphonic exaltation. ~Stéphane Mallarmé

Books are the bees which carry the quickening pollen from one to another mind. ~James Russell Lowell

Books can be dangerous. The best ones should be labeled “This could change your life.” ~Helen Exley

There is a wonder in reading Braille that the sighted will never know: to touch words and have them touch you back. ~Jim Fiebig

This will never be a civilized country until we expend more money for books than we do for chewing gum. ~Elbert Hubbard

Good friends, good books and a sleepy conscience: this is the ideal life. ~Mark Twain

A book is to me like a hat or coat – a very uncomfortable thing until the newness has been worn off. ~Charles B. Fairbanks

If you resist reading what you disagree with, how will you ever acquire deeper insights into what you believe? The things most worth reading are precisely those that challenge our convictions. ~Author Unknown

Books are the glass of council to dress ourselves by. ~Bulstrode Whitlock

Books are not made for furniture, but there is nothing else that so beautifully furnishes a house. ~Henry Ward Beecher

Reading means borrowing. ~Georg Christoph Lichtenberg, Aphorisms

Books are the compasses and telescopes and sextants and charts which other men have prepared to help us navigate the dangerous seas of human life. ~Jesse Lee Bennett

The scholar only knows how dear these silent, yet eloquent, companions of pure thoughts and innocent hours become in the season of adversity. When all that is worldly turns to dross around us, these only retain their steady value. ~Washington Irving

When you reread a classic you do not see more in the book than you did before; you see more in you than was there before. ~Clifton Fadiman

For friends… do but look upon good Books: they are true friends, that will neither flatter nor dissemble. ~Francis Bacon

A book that is shut is but a block. ~Thomas Fuller

In books lies the soul of the whole Past Time: the articulate audible voice of the Past, when the body and material substance of it has altogether vanished like a dream. ~Thomas Carlyle

There are books so alive that you’re always afraid that while you weren’t reading, the book has gone and changed, has shifted like a river; while you went on living, it went on living too, and like a river moved on and moved away. No one has stepped twice into the same river. But did anyone ever step twice into the same book? ~Marina Tsvetaeva

The stories of childhood leave an indelible impression, and their author always has a niche in the temple of memory from which the image is never cast out to be thrown on the rubbish heap of things that are outgrown and outlived. ~Howard Pyle

No man can be called friendless who has God and the companionship of good books. ~Elizabeth Barrett Browning

Medicine for the soul. ~Inscription over the door of the Library at Thebes

Books are lighthouses erected in the great sea of time. ~E.P. Whipple

These are not books, lumps of lifeless paper, but minds alive on the shelves. From each of them goes out its own voice… and just as the touch of a button on our set will fill the room with music, so by taking down one of these volumes and opening it, one can call into range the voice of a man far distant in time and space, and hear him speaking to us, mind to mind, heart to heart. ~Gilbert Highet

“Tell me what you read and I’ll tell you who you are” is true enough, but I’d know you better if you told me what you reread. ~François Mauriac

Books are embalmed minds. ~Bovee

Children don’t read to find their identity, to free themselves from guilt, to quench the thirst for rebellion or to get rid of alienation. They have no use for psychology…. They still believe in God, the family, angels, devils, witches, goblins, logic, clarity, punctuation, and other such obsolete stuff…. When a book is boring, they yawn openly. They don’t expect their writer to redeem humanity, but leave to adults such childish illusions. ~Isaac Bashevis Singer

I divide all readers into two classes; those who read to remember and those who read to forget. ~William Lyon Phelps

The love of learning, the sequestered nooks,
And all the sweet serenity of books.
~Henry Wadsworth Longfellow

There is a temperate zone in the mind, between luxurious indolence and exacting work; and it is to this region, just between laziness and labor, that summer reading belongs. ~Henry Ward Beecher

Nothing is worth reading that does not require an alert mind. ~Charles Dudley Warner

If you have never said “Excuse me” to a parking meter or bashed your shins on a fireplug, you are probably wasting too much valuable reading time. ~Sherri Chasin Calvo

The walls of books around him, dense with the past, formed a kind of insulation against the present world and its disasters. ~Ross MacDonald

The oldest books are still only just out to those who have not read them. ~Samuel Butler

I have friends whose society is delightful to me; they are persons of all countries and of all ages; distinguished in war, in council, and in letters; easy to live with, always at my command. ~Francesco Petrarch

Good as it is to inherit a library, it is better to collect one. ~Augustine Birrell, Obiter Dicta, “Book Buying”

To read without reflecting is like eating without digesting. ~Edmund Burke

The art of reading is in great part that of acquiring a better understanding of life from one’s encounter with it in a book. ~André Maurois

A house without books is like a room without windows. ~Heinrich Mann

From my point of view, a book is a literary prescription put up for the benefit of someone who needs it. ~S.M. Crothers

He fed his spirit with the bread of books. ~Edwin Markham

Bread of flour is good; but there is bread, sweet as honey, if we would eat it, in a good book. ~John Ruskin

Most books, like their authors, are born to die; of only a few books can it be said that death hath no dominion over them; they live, and their influence lives forever. ~J. Swartz

A book is a garden, an orchard, a storehouse, a party, a company by the way, a counsellor, a multitude of counsellors. ~Henry Ward Beecher

Having your book turned into a movie is like seeing your oxen turned into bouillon cubes. ~John LeCarre

Never judge a book by its movie. ~J.W. Eagan

I love to lose myself in other men’s minds…. Books think for me. ~Charles Lamb

Far more seemly were it for thee to have thy study full of books, than thy purse full of money. ~John Lyly

The wise man reads both books and life itself. ~Lin Yutang

I like intellectual reading. It’s to my mind what fiber is to my body. ~Grey Livingston

I often derive a peculiar satisfaction in conversing with the ancient and modern dead, – who yet live and speak excellently in their works. My neighbors think me often alone, – and yet at such times I am in company with more than five hundred mutes – each of whom, at my pleasure, communicates his ideas to me by dumb signs – quite as intelligently as any person living can do by uttering of words. ~Laurence Sterne

You may have tangible wealth untold;
Caskets of jewels and coffers of gold.
Richer than I you can never be -
I had a mother who read to me.
~Strickland Gillilan (Thanks, Laurel)

He who lends a book is an idiot. He who returns the book is more of an idiot. ~Arabic Proverb

The mere brute pleasure of reading – the sort of pleasure a cow must have in grazing. ~Lord Chesterfield

An ordinary man can… surround himself with two thousand books… and thenceforward have at least one place in the world in which it is possible to be happy. ~Augustine Birrell

Books – the best antidote against the marsh-gas of boredom and vacuity. ~George Steiner

In reading, a lonely quiet concert is given to our minds; all our mental faculties will be present in this symphonic exaltation. ~Stéphane Mallarmé

We are too civil to books. For a few golden sentences we will turn over and actually read a volume of four or five hundred pages. ~Ralph Waldo Emerson

From every book invisible threads reach out to other books; and as the mind comes to use and control those threads the whole panorama of the world’s life, past and present, becomes constantly more varied and interesting, while at the same time the mind’s own powers of reflection and judgment are exercised and strengthened. ~Helen E. Haines

Reading is to the mind what exercise is to the body. ~Richard Steele, Tatler, 1710

To acquire the habit of reading is to construct for yourself a refuge from almost all the miseries of life. ~W. Somerset Maugham

How vast an estate it is that we came into as the intellectual heirs of all the watchers and searchers and thinkers and singers of the generations that are dead! What a heritage of stored wealth! What perishing poverty of mind we should be left in without it! ~J.N. Larned

That is a good book which is opened with expectation and closed with profit. ~Amos Bronson Alcott

The multitude of books is making us ignorant. ~Voltaire

There is no such thing as a moral or immoral book; books are well written or badly written. ~Oscar Wilde, Picture of Dorian Gray, 1891

Reading is to the mind what exercise is to the body. It is wholesome and bracing for the mind to have its faculties kept on the stretch. ~Augustus Hare

The best of a book is not the thought which it contains, but the thought which it suggests; just as the charm of music dwells not in the tones but in the echoes of our hearts. ~Oliver Wendell Holmes

Books have to be read (worse luck it takes so long a time). It is the only way of discovering what they contain. A few savage tribes eat them, but reading is the only method of assimilation revealed to the West. ~E.M. Forster

Except a living man there is nothing more wonderful than a book! A message to us from the dead, – from human souls whom we never saw, who lived perhaps thousands of miles away; and yet these, on those little sheets of paper, speak to us, teach us, comfort us, open their hearts to us as brothers. ~Charles Kingsley

Let your bookcases and your shelves be your gardens and your pleasure-grounds. Pluck the fruit that grows therein, gather the roses, the spices, and the myrrh. ~Judah Ibn Tibbon

Some books are to be tasted, others to be swallowed, and some few to be chewed and digested. ~Francis Bacon

Books are a refuge, a sort of cloistral refuge, from the vulgarities of the actual world. ~Walter Pater

That place that does contain
My books, the best companions, is to me
A glorious court, where hourly I converse
With the old sages and philosophers;
And sometimes, for variety, I confer
With kings and emperors, and weigh their counsels;
Calling their victories, if unjustly got,
Unto a strict account, and, in my fancy,
Deface their ill-placed statues.
~Francis Beaumont and John Fletcher

A truly good book teaches me better than to read it. I must soon lay it down, and commence living on its hint…. What I began by reading, I must finish by acting. ~Henry David Thoreau

To read a book for the first time is to make an acquaintance with a new friend; to read it for a second time is to meet an old one. ~Chinese Saying

O for a Booke and a shdie nooke, eyther in-a-doore or out;
With the grene leaves whisp’ring overhede, or the Streete cryes all about.
Where I maie Reade all at my ease, both of the Newe and Olde;
For a jollie goode Booke whereon to looke is better to me than Golde.
~John Wilson

Never lend books, for no one ever returns them; the only books I have in my library are books that other folks have lent me. ~Anatole France

A man may as well expect to grow stronger by always eating as wiser by always reading. ~Jeremy Collier

Books are immortal sons deifying their sires. ~Plato

No entertainment is so cheap as reading, nor any pleasure so lasting. ~Mary Wortley Montagu

I would never read a book if it were possible for me to talk half an hour with the man who wrote it. ~Woodrow Wilson

Books, not which afford us a cowering enjoyment, but in which each thought is of unusual daring; such as an idle man cannot read, and a timid one would not be entertained by, which even make us dangerous to existing institution – such call I good books. ~Henry David Thoreau

It often requires more courage to read some books than it does to fight a battle. ~Sutton Elbert Griggs

Many persons read and like fiction. It does not tax the intelligence and the intelligence of most of us can so ill afford taxation that we rightly welcome any reading matter which avoids this. ~Rose Macaulay

Americans like fat books and thin women. ~Russell Baker

What holy cities are to nomadic tribes – a symbol of race and a bond of union – great books are to the wandering souls of men: they are the Meccas of the mind. ~G.E. Woodberry

God be thanked for books! they are the voices of the distant and the dead, and make us heirs of the spiritual life of past ages. ~W.E. Channing

A good book is always on tap; it may be decanted and drunk a hundred times, and it is still there for further imbibement. ~Holbrook Jackson

A blessed companion is a book, – a book that, fitly chosen, is a lifelong friend,… a book that, at a touch, pours its heart into our own. ~Douglas Jerrold

Reading – the best state yet to keep absolute loneliness at bay. ~William Styron

A large, still book is a piece of quietness, succulent and nourishing in a noisy world, which I approach and imbibe with “a sort of greedy enjoyment,” as Marcel Proust said of those rooms of his old home whose air was “saturated with the bouquet of silence.” ~Holbrook Jackson

‘Tis the good reader that makes the good book; in every book he finds passages which seem confidences or asides hidden from all else and unmistakenly meant for his ear; the profit of books is according to the sensibility of the reader; the profoundest thought or passion sleeps as in a mine, until it is discovered by an equal mind and heart. ~Ralph Waldo Emerson, Society and Solitude, 1870

We should read to give our souls a chance to luxuriate. ~Henry Miller

The book of the moment often has immense vogue, while the book of the age, which comes in its company from the press, lies unnoticed; but the great book has its revenge. It lives to see its contemporary pushed up shelf by shelf until it finds its final resting-place in the garret or the auction room. ~Hamilton Wright Mabie

The time to read is any time: no apparatus, no appointment of time and place, is necessary. It is the only art which can be practised at any hour of the day or night, whenever the time and inclination comes, that is your time for reading; in joy or sorrow, health or illness. ~Holbrook Jackson

I knew a gentleman who was so good a manager of his time that he would not even lose that small portion of it which the calls of nature obliged him to pass in the necessary-house; but gradually went through all the Latin poets in those moments. ~Lord Chesterfield

This nice and subtle happiness of reading, this joy not chilled by age, this polite and unpunished vice, this selfish, serene life-long intoxication. ~Logan Pearsall Smith

Books are delightful society. If you go into a room and find it full of books – even without taking them from the shelves they seem to speak to you, to bid you welcome. ~William Ewart Gladstone

Books support us in our solitude and keep us from being a burden to ourselves. ~Jeremy Collier


10
Jul 08

More Tips to Get Your Child to Read

  •  Be wordy! Play word games, discuss new words, put magnetic letters on the refrigerator, and encourage your child to read everything from signs to cereal boxes.
  • Be silly! Use your voice and body language with feeling and fun when you read aloud to make the story come alive.  The more you bring the character alive, the more enjoyable it will be for the both of you!
  • Choose wisely! Choose books that reflect your child’s interests and are age-appropriate – your librarian can help.
  • Listen! Be an enthusiastic listener, encouraging your child to “read” books to you (even if a lot of the story is from memory or made up).
  • Repeat! Read your child’s favorite book over and over again…then add a new one!

9
Jul 08

S.P.A.R.K! Getting Your Child to Read

Literacy is something that is very near and dear to my heart.  Every child deserves to know how to read, to be read to, and to feel his imagination soaring as he adventures through the pages of a wonderful book.

Here are some tips to Ignite the S.P.A.R.K. of reading in your child:

  • S = Snuggle! Make reading and relaxing together in a quiet, comfortable place part of your daily routines.
  • P = Plan ahead! Take favorite books with you so you can read on the bus, in line at the grocery store, or wherever you are stuck waiting.
  • A = Ask questions! Pause as you read and ask questions about the story like, “What do you think will happen next?”
  • R = Read yourself!  Make sure that your child sees you reading – there is no more powerful way to send the message that the adults in his life think reading is worthwhile and fun.
  • K = Keep it up! Keep reading aloud even when your child can read on his/her own.

12
Jun 08

Parenting and Homeschooling Book List

(NOTE:  The latest books updated are in Italics)

Last Updated:  June 12, 2008

I’ve always loved learning.  Just as some people desire food, have an obsession with new clothes, or rejoice over the latest WII game, my heart pounds at the sight of a good book.  Or anything with words, for that matter. 

I even read the backs of people’s shampoo bottles while alone in their bathroom.

Yes, I’m that bad.

(Please don’t tell)

I’m a lifelong library lover, and cardtoting member to two…count them TWO local libraries (one of which is known as the best library in the south east).  I visit at least a couple times per month, and always return home with a huge bag full of books.  That’s not even considering the books I own.  Even now that I’m a mom, you’ll still find me with a book in my hand when the baby is sleeping in the wee hours of the morning, or nursing during the day. 

Because my interests change often, I read a variety of non-fiction books – and will exhaust all library books on one subject if I stay highly interested long enough!

For the past year, I’ve been heavily into parenting and homeschool type of books.  I’ve learned so much from them, and have developed a good view of the modern homeschooling movement as well.  So..I decided I would share the books I read with our blog visitors.  As I continue to read, I will update this post.

All books on this list have been read, by me, cover to cover.

 

PARENTING BOOKS:

What to Expect When You Are Expecting – Yes.  This is the motherload of all pregnancy books.  If you are expecting, get it.  My cousin gave it to me at my bridal shower (even though, at the time, my first pregnancy was still over a year away!), that’s how much power this book holds.  It takes you step by step through each month and…well..what to expect.  It is written in a question / answer form and topics you wouldn’t even thick of in your wildest dreams are even covered.  It’s a terrific “reference” guide!  However, be warned, you may gloss over (aka “not notice”) information that’s in there until AFTER you experience it first hand.

A Girlfriend’s Guide to Pregnancy -  This was, to me, better (and funner) than the What to Expect book.  Written by a woman in the mid-90′s, this book brings in view the many subjects that us women experience – but are too embarrassed to talk about, such as farting, having nothing to wear, intimacy, feelings, and other pregnancy related issues.  It’s message is serious, but it is written in a humorous, jesting manner.  I laughed out loud (HARD) during many parts of the book.

What to Expect the First Year – This book is just like it’s pregnant counterpart, written in the same question / answer format and everything, picking up where that book left off (labor & delivery).  It takes you month by month through your baby’s development.  This has been a very helpful reference since I had Jack!

Romancing the Heart of Your Child – This book delves into christian principles of parenting your child in a way that will show him not only your deep love but the love of our Father in Heaven.  The book is heavily personal, relying much on personal parenting experiences and childhood memories of the author (a man).  It’s not a favorite, but I did take a few good tips and pointers from the book.

The Mister Rogers Parenting Book: Helping to Understand Your Young Child – I loved Mr. Roger’s Neighborhood when I was a child.  In fact, I cried when he died and still watch it now.  His quiet calmness, easy-going manner, morals, coverage of true childhood fears and issues, and ability to never talk down to a child made him a hero to me.  In this book, he uses his expertise in early childhood development to help explain how to help your preschooler  cope with many every day issues and challenges in life.  The book has many helpful hints, a few cute black & white graphics, and is written in such a manner that you can actually “hear” Mr. Roger’s voice speaking out from the text.

 

 

HOMESCHOOLING BOOKS:

How Smart is Your Baby:  Develop and Nurture Your Newborn’s Full Potential – This book was written by specialists who discovered that they could apply principals used in brain-damaged children’s development to help growth in the normal child as well.  The beginning of the book shows the cognitive develoment stages of an infant and the known natural reflexes, and then a curriculum is laid out in helping advance your baby through these 6 early stages.  The authors do not believe in waiting for natural “readiness” or “timetables” (as promoted by Charlotte Mason and some modern day educators), but encourage parents to help guide a child through each stage so he sucessfully conquers the cognitive mastery of each stage. It was refreshing to read a book that promotes the possibility of developing highly intelligent children early on (as I lean more in that direction myself), but the time needed for this curriculum is pretty rediculous for a regular parent!  I picked up some great tips though, and found the most interesting to be that even a newborn has the cognitive ability to purposefully creep along the floor on his tummy (which I watched my own son do successfully!).

The Well Trained Mind – This book is written by a mom and former homeschooled daughter from the late ’70s.  They introduce the reader to the classical education method, a greek influenced liberal arts education  which involves training children based on the “Trivium” (Grammar, Logic, and Rhetoric stage / age progression).  A complete curriculum, including implementation advice and book lists, is laid out from kindergarten to 12th grade.  The author’s tone tends to be “my way, or else” at times, and I find it odd that she never discusses how her other children did with this type of training…but otherwise I enjoyed this book.  Be forewarned though that the book lays out a 40+ hour week of formal schooling at home (something no homeschooling mom wants), and the author makes it sound as if your child will be doomed if it’s not followed!  You should know how to “cut and paste” to suit your family’s needs.

A Charlotte Mason Education – This small book is a pretty quick read, but it does a great job at introducing you to the educational beliefs and system proposed by early 20th century educator Charlott Mason.  Examples from the author’s own homeschooling experience and implementation advice are scattered throughout.  I would suggest reading this book a number of times, and maybe even keep it on hand as reference.

The Homeschool Reader – This book contains articles collected from the Home Education Magazine from 1984 to 1994.  Since homeschooling was just becoming “legal” during this time (legality in all 50 stages didn’t happen until 1989!), these folks were the pioneers of the modern day homeschooling movement.  The articles / essays are grouped into categories such as “Teaching and Learning”, “Subjects”, and even “Personal Experiences”.  Over 31 authors are represented, including John Holt (the father of the unschooling movement), Linda Dobson, and John Taylor Gatto (NY City Teacher of the Year 1989-91, NY State Teacher of the Year 1991).  I loved the insight provided by these homeschoolers, and found it humorous to hear one author mention Saxon (today’s most popular math textbook curriculum) as the “new comer on the block”!

 The Relaxed Home School: A Family Production – This cute book bases it’s theme on the theater with chapters such as “The Production Crew” (family unit), “Writing the Script” (planning), and “Act II: A Living Curriculum” (using real books).  The author Mary Hood has a PH.D. and educated her own 5 children.  It is very personal, written in simple first person chit-chat (giving you the feeling she is sitting in front of you chatting), and has many references to her family experiences.  Her ideals are based heavily on Charlotte Mason theory, and this book provides a nice overview of one way of starting (and planning) homeschooling. 

 Taking Charge Through Homeschooling:  Personal and Poliical Empowerment – This book did more for developing my personal education and homeschooling beliefs than any other I’ve read.  Unlike 99% of other homeschooling books, this one does not focus on the main homeschooling issues of “why, how to, and method”.  Instead it delves into the role homeschooling plays in American education and the political / social issues surrounding it.  I like how it doesn’t harp on the public education system, but instead looks at facts and how homeschooling provides a good, strong, viable alternative to the goverment-run system that has only been around for a century or so.  It is very detailed, and written on a much higher level than most of the books I’ve read in this genre.  Written in 1990, this book came on the scene only a few years after homeschooling became legal in the US (all 50 states by 1989), but don’t discount it’s use today!  With sections on Winning Support for Homeschooling, Countering Restrictive Laws, and Making the Best of Current Law, you’ll be more prepared to stand up for your right to provide a quality education for your child at home.