Posts Tagged: Holidays


21
Nov 10

How to (NOT) Take Great Family Photos

My Dad (Jack’s beloved “Papa”), Jack-Evan, Maggie-Jo and I all ventured downtown last week to catch our city’s annual veteran’s day parade.

I thought it would be a brilliant idea to catch a family photo of us for posterity.

Family Photo:  STRIKE ONE.

Family Photo: STRIKE TWO.

Family Photo:  STRIKE THREE.

I give up.

*SIGH*


24
Jul 10

If you ever come to a holiday dinner at our house…

…just follow the signs  —>>

(Can you tell which sign Little Jack contributed to the wall?)


9
May 09

Happy 1st Birthday to Me

(Voiced by the now 1 year old Little Jack, yet still typed by Mommy)

Once upon a time, I had to take a bath.


Mommy said it was so I would smell good for everyone at the party.

Turns out, I wasn’t the only thing that smelled good! 

As we waited for everyone to show up….

Daddy headed to the store to pick up more Pepsi and my great Aunt Faye took over grilling!

Music was playing, people were taking pictures left and right….

…and everyone was just kicked back, having a great time.

(I’m glad they all had such a good time.  I, however, was much too sleepy)

Here is my girlfriend mommy’s friend’s daughter, Alyse.

 

(Don’t tell her, but I think she’s cute.)

 I even tried to show her how capable I am by providing her with food.

 

Then I had to concentrate on my own dessert.

(Oh…my bad….did you want some cake too?)

After throwing all my cake on the floor eating my dessert, mommy opened my presents.

I always thought it was I who was supposed to open my gifts,
but I didn’t really have the heart to take the fun away from mommy.

All in all, I had a fabulous day.

(And 4 more baths that evening.)

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THE END.


13
Feb 09

Where is L-O-V-E?

Some commercials  would have you believe that “L-o-v-e” comes packaged in petals and chocolate, red & white, paper hearts and hallmark cards, dinner and a movie, candelight and music, or in one commercialized day in February.  

I say, it just ain’t so.

So where is “L-O-V-E”?

Trip to NY 2009 by you.

“L-o-v-e” comes packaged in hats and coats.

Trip to NY 2009 by you.

“L-0-v-e” comes packaged during a slide on the snow. (Quick! Did you miss it?)

100_4053 by you.

L-o-v-e  comes packaged in an afternoon nap.  Shhhhh….

100_4054 by you.

“L-o-v-e” comes packaged in a playful grin.

100_4072 by you.

“L-o-v-e” comes packaged in the everyday, ordinary aspects of life.

100_4059 by you.

You know, those things that we overlook in our day to day, hurried existance.

100_4090 by you.

Things such as a husband’s hearty laugh, a baby’s drool, a mother’s homemade meal
or simply
that single moment in time which is now gone forever.

Have you paid enough attention to all the “L-o-v-e” packaged around you lately?

 


3
Nov 08

My First Halloween

(Voiced by 5 month old Jack-Evan, typed by Mommy)

Trick o' Treating 10-31 by you.

Once upon a time, I went trick or treating with my mom and dad.

Trick o' Treating 10-31 by you.

I was a lion, Dad was a yankee farmer, and mom was a southern country girl.

Trick o' Treating 10-31 by you.

Since I can’t eat candy yet…

Trick o' Treating 10-31 by you.

…my Grammy gave me some baby food in my goodie bag!

Trick o' Treating 10-31 by you.

Next we treated my Abuella (Daddy’s birth mom).

Trick o' Treating 10-31 by you.

Then we went to Aunt Mae’s house.
(She is my Grammy’s sister)

Trick o' Treating 10-31 by you.

She’s one of *those* Aunts who is always kissing my chubby cheeks.

Trick o' Treating 10-31 by you.

We had a lot of fun visiting!

Trick o' Treating 10-31 by you.

And finally, we made our way over to cousin Tammy’s house…

Trick o' Treating 10-31 by you.

where we saw Willy Wonka…

Trick o' Treating 10-31 by you.

…Bat Woman…

Trick o' Treating 10-31 by you.

…and a really funny guy with yummy hair.
(Mom says he’s my cousin.  I didn’t want to believe her.)

Trick o' Treating 10-31 by you.

After roasting some marshmellows

Trick o' Treating 10-31 by you.

We said goodbye to everyone

Trick o' Treating 10-31 by you.

And went back to my Grammy and Papa’s house
for the rest of the evening.

The End.

P.S.  Please tell mommy to stop eating my candy. 
Thanks, Love, Jack-Evan

 


16
Oct 08

What are you thankful for?

I didn’t originally have this as a “Thankful Thursday” 
But I happened to notice it coincided quite nicely,
and wanted to share it on the Thankful Thursday weekly site. :)
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Are you thankful for things in your life?  Really, truly, absolutely thankful?

From the Merriam-Webster Online:

thank·ful 
Pronunciation:
\ˈthaŋk-fəl\
Function:
adjective
Date:
before 12th century
1 : conscious of benefit received <for what we are about to receive make us truly thankful>
2 : expressive of thanks <thankful service>
3 : well pleased : glad <was thankful that it didn’t rain>
thank·ful·ness noun

  As you wake up in the morning, are you conscious of benefits you have received?  Are you well pleased with your life?  Do you let those you love and others around you know of your thankfulness?

Sometimes in our daily life, we forget to take stock of all the good things surrounding us. Fall rushes in, pumpkins sprout faces, and Santa sits merrily on the same shelf as a styrofoam gravestone.  In between gobbling candy and wrapping presents, we suddenly remember a holiday that Walmart seems to have forgotten.  Yet are we any better?  When that day arrives – Thanksgiving day in America – we hurridly spout one or two cliches as we sit with family in front of our 20 lb. turkey, never truly digging further into what it truly means to be thankful.
So now, as we sit on the brink of the horrifically commercialized Hallowistmas, I want to challenge you to slow down a bit and focus more on the little forgotten turkey in the middle.  I personally think the entire month of November should be devoted to remembering to be thankful.  Perhaps it could help rid America of the prevailing “gimme more more more” and “woe is me” mindset.   So what are you thankful for?
Here is my list:
  1. The right to elect the officials of my country.   I may not always agree with what they say, but at least I know that if they make an error, the public vote will ensure they will not be put back into office.  I may not be the smartest cookie out there, but I do know I wouldn’t want to live in a country where I had no say in the officials and laws placed over me.
  2. The ability to walk into Walmart and purchase a peach.   Or a book.  Or a can of soup.   Being able to purchase anything is a great feeling.  Having currency freely coming into my household is an even greater feeling. 
  3. Not worrying about starvation.  Honestly, the thought never even crosses my mind – yet millions of people all over the world starve each day.  It is a blessing beyond belief to have full access to food and clean water.  Google Somalia if you don’t feel blessed with abundant food.
  4. The bonds of kinship.  I am blessed with a large extended family with whom I am in regular touch with.  They are my source of all that is humanly good.  We laugh together, cry together, and conspire together.  My husband, my son, my parents, my husband’s parents, my husband’s siblings, my aunts and uncles, my cousins – they all bring color to my life, and I love them with my very soul.
  5. Motherhood.  To look at a child and realize that he gained life within your own body is a breathtaking moment.  To look at a child and realize he will remember you as “mama” when he himself is 80 years old is earth shattering.  It makes you want to examine yourself deeply so that no sin in your life will harm him in the future.  Everything you say and do for the rest of your life will have an inpact on him – and consequently, on every successive generation.  It’s enough to scare the panties off of many people.  Yet it’s our highest and most noble calling.
  6. The fact that our constitution allows freedom of religion.   There are countries out there where people are turtured and brutally murdered for expressing their faith in God.  Here in my city, I can ride down the street with 10 different translations of the Bible in my car, at 10 AM on a Sunday morning, on my way to a public worship service at our church.  I’m really not sure if I would be strong enough to withhold torture – as much as I hate to admit it, I’m much afraid that I’m not cut from a martyr’s mold.  Pain just does not bode well for me!  I’m beyond thankful that I do not have to worry about torture or pain when I choose to worship Christ.
  7. Utilities.   Yes, utilities.  I flick a switch and light appears.  I twist a knob and clean, fresh drinking water appears.  If you do not think much of utilities and clean water, google up the aftermath of Katrina or any of the recent earthquakes around the world.
  8. Not knowing what poverty means.  In America today, “poor” more often than not means families with no cable TV and children who do not get designer goods during the school year.  While I’ve known America’s “poor”, I have never known poverty.  And as long as I have $1 and a McDonalds nearby, I never will.  Compared to many of the world’s countries, I live in a castle and feast on a banquet table daily.
  9. My servants.  And yes, I have many.  The dishwasher, electric stove, toaster oven, refrigerator, freezer, washing machine, dryer, iron, steam mop, motorized vaccuum, bathtub, shower stall, toilet, SUV, running water, light bulbs, modern plumbing, electrical wires, shingles, 1150 sq. feet of living space, modern siding, insulation, glass windows, air ducts for ventilation, clean flooring, air condition, heater, ceiling fan, cell phone, house phone, TV, radio, laptop, broadband, and dish network satellite, to name a few.  In other words, I’m spoiled in comparison to 90% of the world population. 
  10. Public Libraries.  I believe that education is very empowering, and I also believe that one should never stop trying to learn new things.  Being able to walk into a building and remove any book on practically any subject, and read it for free, is something I am overwhelmingly thankful for.

20
Jan 08

Christmas in New York

Every year, Kevin’s father’s side of the family gets together in New York for their annual Christmas celebration in January.  This year’s party was on Saturday, January 5.

Of course we went!

Although I have been to NY twice already, this was my first time going to the Christmas party.  We left on Thursday night after Kevin got off of work (Jan. 3) and we drove through the night.  Or well, I should say I drove through the night. :)   Kevin’s our family day driver.  I’m the night driver since I’m the night owl!  We left my mom and dad’s house around 9 pm that night and arrived in Kendall, NY (Upstate) shortly before 1 pm on Friday.  That included a 2 hours naptime during the night.  I was so glad I didn’t have to stop as much as we though I would! 

We stayed with Donna (Kevin’s mom) that afternoon and then Friday night the family gave me a  terrificly fun Baby Shower.  It was great!

That night we stayed with Jason & Michelle (Kevin’s brother and his wife)….and Saturday morning by 9 am we were headed  out to the family Christmas party!  It was held at Kevin’s Grandpa’s house (as it is every year) and we all ate a huge breakfast (there had to be at least 30 people there).  Around noon we all took off for the bowling alley where the family had rented out half of the center.  Everyone bowled 3-4 games a piece (bowling is a huge pastime in our family).   I didn’t bowl though….I just joked that I was carrying around my own bowling ball already and didn’t care to try to throw another one around. :)   I love bowling, but it did kinda worry me about what might happen if I strained myself…being 6 months pregnant and all.  At least there’s next year, right?

One really awesome thing – while we were bowling, DeAnna came and got me to tell me it was SNOWING!  Woot woot!  Being the little southern bred lady that I am, I have never seen more than a few inches of snow – ever.  And here it was, 4 inches of snow on the ground already and it was snowing again.  People thought I was nuts!  They kept saying “This is NOT a lot of snow.”   All I could say was….”You forget I’m from the south!”.    I’m so glad we had our camcorder there to capture all of those fun moments – especially the snow. :-D

After bowling (around 4 pm Saturday afternoon) we went back to Grandpa’s house to eat pizza and play games,  chitchat, play cards, and watch movies.  Someone had brought the Wii so a bunch of the cousins were playing the sports games (bowling, tennis, baseball).  With all of the fun going on, the evening passed really quickly!  Before we knew it, it was nearly 11 pm.

So my first Christmas with Kevin’s family was a pretty awesome one. 

That night we all spent the night with Kevin’s dad at the house Kevin & his brother and sister grew up in – and the next morning we went over to Kevin’s mom’s house for yet another Christmas breakfast.  This time it was just the immediate family, so it was a bit more cozy.   After breakfast we opened gifts and just hung out for a while.  It was a really special time for all of us.

….then, as with all good things, our 3rd trip to New York came to an end, signalling the final conclusion of the holiday season – and our last holiday as a single couple.  We arrived back home in SC around 10:30 am Tuesday morning (1-8) and Kevin went back to work Wednesday.

We now look forward to celebrating our first Christmas with our first child in 2008!  How exciting it will be!


19
Jan 08

Christmas Day 2007 & Gettin’ Big!

Christmas 2007 was a very unusual one for us, but we did create some great memories!  For one, Kevin and I had our 2nd annual tradition of visiting Harmon’s Tree Farm and cutting down our live christmas tree – on my 25th birthday (Dec. 1, 2007).  Since our big gift to ourself this year was a new digital camcorder (in preparation for the upcoming birth) we were even able to get it on video.

Kevin also continued his tradition on Christmas morning of cooking a big, ol’ fashioned Christmas breakfast! His dishes include yummy pancakes, sausage, bacon, scrambled eggs, toast, hot chocolate, and milk. I’m so proud of him when he thinks of family traditions like that for us to carry out through the years.

After opening gifts and finishing off breakfast, we loaded up and went to my mom and dad’s home for Christmas dinner of Salmon Stew and Salmon Patties (NOT our usual fare…but thankfully we did have turkey dinner the following Thursday). It’s all good though…I was with the people that mattered most to me (Kevin, Mom, & Dad) on Christmas day, and that’s what truly matters. I love my parents deeply – and I hope to pass down their legacy and everything they’ve taught me to Little Jack one day.

A few people have commented that this Christmas is Little Jack’s “First Christmas”.  I happen to agree. :)   He may not be visible, but he definately had a huge impact on this Christmas (our last one as just “Lisa and Kevin”). 

 
….He also had a huge impact on my stomach!