January, 2008


29
Jan 08

26 weeks down… 14 more to go!

Whooohooo! 

I hit the big 2.6. today in pregnancy age. :)   Only 14 more weeks to go before my official due date.

:::tick tock, tick tock:::

Here is what KidsHealth.org has to say about the 26th week.

Your Baby’s Development

Although your baby’s eyes have been sealed shut for the last few months, they will soon open and begin to blink. Depending on ethnicity, some babies will be born with blue or gray-blue eyes (which may change color in the first year of life) and some will be born with brown or dark eyes. Eyelashes are growing in, as is more hair on the head.

Your baby, weighing a little less than 2 pounds (907 grams), still looks wrinkly but will continue to gain weight steadily over the next 14 weeks until birth.

…isn’t that just the cutest thing to know?  My baby’s little teeny tinsy eyelids will soon begin to blink just like a “normal” person!  How sweet is that!?  

It’s weird to think that I am carrying a being that already weighs more than a pound inside of me.  Am I a bad mother for thinking of long parasites when visualizing things inside the body?  You know, the kind ETV or TLC always shows, where a person holds up a wad of worms weighing a couple of pounds.  Ew.

Although it’s a miraculous thing, and I completely love it (most of the time), I guess one never quite gets use to the fact that something else is alive inside of them.  Something else that is requiring your own body’s life source to stay alive.  It’s definately quite a lot to ponder…and becomes even more ponderful the more you sit and ponder over it. :)  

Ok, well maybe that’s enough pondering for now.


28
Jan 08

Win a Free Binkie Basket Pacifier Holder!

CONTEST IS CLOSED AS OF

10 PM EST, SUNDAY, 2-3-08

GOOD LUCK! 

 

Let the games begin!

This week, Little Jack’s Corner is participating in our very first Bloggy Giveaway Carnival.  This particular carnival is hosted by Shannon, over at the Rocks In My Dryer blog, and participation is running in the hundreds already. 

I personally know how utterly exciting it is to finally win something (don’t you get a wee bit sad when you learn you didn’t win?).  Now it’s our turn to offer one of our readers a chance to experience a winning thrill of her (or his?!) own!

Ok, for all of you moms out there (and grandmoms, and aunts too!) you know how frustrating it is when your pacifier addicted toddler loses that almighty Binkie.  Talk about chaos!  Well, with 2 children under the age of 4, my sister-in-law Michelle, knew that frustration all too well.  So one day, during all of her chores (and amidst crying babies) she dreamed up the Binkie Basket – a stuffed animal, with a handy attatched basket and tie’able ribbons, perfect for storing pacifiers anywhere within reach.

For our giveaway, Little Jack’s Corner has teamed up with Michelle’s Binkie Baskets  (www.BinkieBaskets.com) to offer you a free, one-of-a-kind original Binkie Basket of your choice!

The winner of our contest will be able to choose one basket from any of the Binkie Baskets listed in the Binkie Basket Etsy Store.  There are currently many different designs to choose from ranging from bunnies to ducks to lambs to bears.  They’ll be the perfect Easter present (they’re very cute when filled with jelly beans).

CONTEST RULES:

Contest runs Monday, Jan. 28 through Sunday, Feb. 3 at 10 pm EST

  • Please leave a comment on this post only about why you deserve this

  • You must include a reachable email address when you comment!

  • Only US entries please! (No international addresses)

  • Comment must be posted by 10 pm EST. Sunday, February 3

  • Prize is completely free!  One Binkie Basket & free shipping!

Please be aware that I moderate all comments before they go live.  The entry deadline is 10 pm EST next Sunday (2/3/08) at which time I will close off the comment form.  Using all of the entries (comments) listed, my husband and I will draw a random entry name from the box and that person will be our winner!  The drawing will be photographed, and the Winner Announcement will be posted at 11 pm EST Sunday night!  The winner will be asked to privately send me their real contact information (address) and which basket they prefer from the Binkie Baskets store.

Head on over to www.BinkieBaskets.com and the
Binkie Basket Etsy Shop to view current products!

GOOD LUCK! :)

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28
Jan 08

Ode to the Laundry Fairy

I love writing.  I love writing poems even better!  The sillier they are, the more I like them.  I guess it stems from all the books my mom use to read to me when I was little….the rhyming, the meter, everything about a poem just makes me all bubbly inside.

There is a joke in my family stemming back from the moment I first got married that I now had to do my own laundry (I sadly admit that before marriage I was one of those lucky spoiled ones who still lived at home and “momma did it for me”).  She was a stay-at-home mom and enjoyed taking care of us.   Unfortunately, I never gave the laundry a second thought back then.   It was always just as if my clothes somehow magically cleaned themselves.  After marriage, months and months passed before I got the hang of doing not only my laundry, but my husbands large, filthy, stinky, mud crusted work clothes as well.  Ewww….and don’t get me started on mud-crusty balled up size 13 men’s socks.  I hated it with a passion!!   “Where is my little laundry fairy??” I would often cry.

This poem just popped outta me today (yeh, yeh, I’m good like that) and I thought I would post it.

(By the way, I still dream of the day when I can have my own Laundry Fairy again though.)


It’s Monday morning,
In your newlywed life,
You sit up in bed,
And think “I’m a wife!”

Over in the corner,
Wait….what do you see?
16 pairs of pants
And 32 Tees!

But they are all dirty,
Covered with filth.
(Where is that fairy?!)
Now you’re feelin’ some guilt.

Your husband is yellin’
There’s nothin to wear!
But he hasn’t helped,
So why should you care?!

You look out the window
For her glittering wings
While your laundry lays limp,
Growing the grossest of things.

When you were younger,
She was always around,
Pickin’ up and cleaning
Your clothes from the ground.

But where is she now,
That darn laundry fairy?
You never suspected she’d
Disappear when you married!

As the weeks passed,
The piles grew and grew
Till you both were down
To your last underroo.

You finally call mom
To ask what has happened;
But get very discouraged
When she starts a laughin’.

Sweet daughter, she chimes
Why, didn’t you know?
She’s there with you now,
And she’s ready to go!

I don’t understand!
You miserably sigh,
I’m looking around
But see only my guy!

Well go to the bathroom
And here’s what you’ll see…
Staring back from that mirror
Is your new Laundry Fairy!


(Send this poem to a friend!)

Poem Copyright © 1-28-2008, Lisa,  from Little Jack’s Corner


28
Jan 08

My Monday Routine

Ok, here we are at our first daily routine.  Today is the day that I make sure our non-carpeted floors are all nice and tidy.  I also ensure that our living room is presentable for any company that may pop in during the week, and that there is fresh fruit & veggies available for everyone. 

I’ve also given myself the task (every day!) of de-cluttering something.  This could mean anything from the box of my old stuff my Dad brought over from my parents house (something I currently need to do!), to going through and tossing old magazines, to organizing our DVD collection.  It’s sort of my take on the FlyLady’s “27 Fling Boogie”.

So here it is.   What I’ll be doing today, in my merry little housewifery duties…

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MONDAY’S CHECKLIST

Morning Routine

Heavy Sweep & Mop

Deep Clean Living Room

Clear Out Old Food in Fridge

Visit Farmers Market for Fresh Food

Wipe Down Petrie’s Cage

Cook Dinner & Make Beverages

De-clutter something

Evening Routine

ENJOY YOUR WEEK!


28
Jan 08

The Grand Meaning of Deep Cleaning

Before we look any further into my daily routines, I thought it would be best to describe what the “Deep Clean…” part means for each room listed on each day.

In true FlyLady style, I’ve divided my living space into zones. 

Those zones are:

Living Room (Monday)
Kitchen & Bathrooms (Tuesday)
Guestroom & Porches (Wednesday)
Master Bedroom (Thursday)
Nursery (Friday)
Vehicles (Saturday)

Then, on each zone’s selected day, I take my trusty wand…ur…rag and head into it to do some thorough cleaning.  What do I mean by deep cleaning?  Here’s my breakdown for each room.

LIVING ROOM:
Ensure ALL Objects are Dust Free
Wipe Dust from Ceiling Fan
Clean Window Sills / Faceplates / Frames
Straighten Books & DVDs
Vacuum Pet Hair
Clean Blankets & Curtains if Needed

KITCHEN:
Sanitize Everything!
Clean Stovetop
Wipe Out Microwave
Wipe Down Fridge (Inside & Out)
Organize Pantry & Cabinets
Clean Window Sills / Faceplates / Frames
Scrub Counters & Table

BATHROOM:
Everything Must Sparkle!
De-clutter / Organize Makeup
Ensure Tub/Shower/Toilets are Spotless
Throw Away Old Supplies
Restock Toilet Paper / Cleaning Supplies
Clean Brushes
Wash Towels / Rags

PORCHES:
Heavy Sweep
Remove Spider Webs
Wash / Mop
Straighten Furniture

GUEST ROOM:
Open Window to Air Out
Let Napoleon Free
Heavy De-clutter!!
Wipe Window Sill / Faceplates

OUR ROOM:
Straighten Closets & Drawers
Remove / Wash Bedding
Wash Window Sills / Faceplates / Frames
Ensure All Objects are Dust Free

NURSERY:
Pick up Any Small Objects
Clean Window Sills / Faceplates
Wipe Down Cabinetry
De-clutter / Organize / Decorate

VEHICLES:
Throw away all trash
Remove any and all clutter
Vaccuum rugs & seats
Wash windows

TAKE A DEEP BREATH!

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As you see, I have a small reminder to myself at the end to continue my breathing routine in the midst of it all.  But no, seriously, this may seem like a lot, but in reality it usually doesn’t take long at all.  Maybe 1-3 hours tops.  And I mean tip-top, this place needs a chop-chop.

Knowing what I’ve got to do every day also helps make sure it actually gets done.  Before I had my little routine set in my head, I probably couldn’t remember the last time the bed sheets had been washed.  In fact, I’ve always been bad about changing bed sheets.  I think I once went for 3 years without changing them.

Well, ok, maybe not that long, but that gives you some idea of how badly I need the routine listed!  My brain simply can not remember to do these minute things otherwise!


28
Jan 08

My Morning & Evening Routines

Each morning, after waking up, I have a list of things that I do in the house.  They’re not too hard, but the make the day run a lot smoother – and help with maintaining the house.  I also have an evening routine that I do just before bed (albeit nightynighttimewithmyhusbandisnotlisted although I like that to be as routine as possible!).  All of my routines are printed on paper with adorable homey-effect clipart in the background.

The routines I have now will most likely change once the baby is born and will include typical motherly duties as he grows, but for right now this is what works for me when it comes to maintaining our humble abode.

Oh…and please excuse my use of cutesy words.  Although it may seem like it here, I do not talk like a 2 year old in real life.  I just find it a whole lot friendlier looking when cute words are printed on paper.  Plus I’m training my mind for future conversations with Lil’ Jack.  Cross my heart. :)

MY MORNING ROUTINE

Make Bed / Read Bible / Pray

Use the Potty

Brush Hair & Wash Face

Swish & Swipe the Bathrooms

Feed the Doggies & Let Out

Check Napoleon & Petrie

Eat or Drink Something Healthy

Unload Dishwasher

Quick Sweep Floor & Porches

Unload Washer or Dryer

Open Windows & Blinds

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MY EVENING ROUTINE

Load & Start Dishwasher & Washer

Clear & Clean Kitchen & Counters

Clear off Tables

Shine Sink

Feed the Doggies

Throw out Petrie’s Cage Liner

Drink Water

Let Down Blinds

Pick-up Today’s Remaining Clutter

Brush Teeth / Take a Bath / Relax

Call Mom, Pray, Bedtime!


28
Jan 08

Proud Follower of FlyLady!

Some time ago, I discovered this nifty site online that gives tips on how to de-clutter your life and organize everything from your potty room to your pantry to your purse.  It’s www.FlyLady.net and she has quite the following.  The little purple fairy is quite hilarious as well and is kinda how I wish my personal Laundry Fairy would look (if she still visited my home!).

One big thing about FlyLady is her encouragement of having a daily routine.  Routines are typically divided up into mangeable portions that cover morning chores, evening chores, daily cleanings, and “zone focusing” (deep cleaning one particular area of the home per day).  She even provides a list of habits to start following – with the most popular being “Shine your Sink”, followed closely by “Dress to Shoes”.

Now, no matter how strongly a purple fairy encourages me to do so, I will never wear shoes in my home, but I do follow pretty much everything else – customized to my own preferences. 

She also sends out daily email (about a gazillion per day to be exact) reminders that helps you along your way.  I use to get these emails but for the sake of having a de-cluttered Inbox, I stopped getting those.  Luckily, she has everything on her website anyway. :)

My personal routines were compiled back in October 2007 when I first became a stay-at-home wife, and letmetellyou, the house has never been easier to keep clean!  The “15 minutes” that she encourages, “if nothing else”, really can -and do- make a huge impact.  So does little things such as the daily “swish & swipe” of the bathroom.  And don’t we all love a clean bathroom?  :-D

I thought for this week, I’d do a little series on my FlyLady routines and how they’ve helped.  We’ll start off with this opening post, and each day I’ll post my own routines for that day.   Next Saturday, we’ll pick back up and discuss more about FlyLady.  Perhaps a fellow FlyLady will be reading and want to join in with some comments!

Ready?  Ok, let’s take a peek….


28
Jan 08

The Countdown Has Begun

I just realized that we’ve reached the double digits in our countdown to the birth.  We now have less than 100 days to go before his May 6 due date! 

It’s a good thing too.   I can’t wait to be able to hold him in my arms, rock him, sing to him, read to him and just stare at him.  It already feels like I’ve been pregnant my entire life.  Whew.   By some huge twist of fate, I was denied the pleasures of first trimester nausea and hanging my head in the toilet.  Is it bad that I wished that I could have experienced it just once?  For the longest time I didn’t even “feel” pregnant.  I had no signs or symptoms for months other than an expanding heiny region and sheer tiredness.  Many times I even completely forgot I was pregnant (bad mommy).

Having reached my 6th month, however, I am finally enjoying “feeling pregnant”.  Although, “enjoying” may not be the right word for it.  It’s more akin to ”I’m plodding-helplessly-through-painful-kicking” feeling of being pregnant.  Thankfully he hasn’t decided to dig for intestinal gold with his feet since last Tuesday!  I’m not sure if I could handle too many days like that.

Now that I consider it, maybe I am thankful I bypassed the first trimester barfing.

February is fast approaching.  Everyone told me that once you get on into the pregnancy it begins to fly by – and I’m starting to believe it.  It seems like Christmas was just a few days ago.   So now all I have left to go is February, March, and April….

(On a side note, I’m sitting in the living room recliner, working on my laptop.  My dog, PupPup just tippy-toed past me with his head hunkered down.  I knew he was up to something!  I said his name and he turned towards me with a huge roll of toilet paper in his mouth.  Thankfully he knows what “Uh, put that down” means.  He’s trying to make up for it by slathering my bare feet with kisses.  Silly PupPup.)

…..so…ok… February, March, & April are now the only months left before our lives change so dramatically that neither of us can fathom it at this time.  We will forever be responsible for the little human that comes home to live with us from that big ol’ brick hospital.

And we’re both so excited about it that we can hardly contain ourselves! 

It occured to me for the first time today that I’ll be able to hold, snuggle, and spoil this little baby to my hearts content and no one can stop me.  I won’t have to ever put him down if I don’t want to.  He’ll be 100% mine.  (Yeh, yeh, my husband’s too…but I’m talking from a pure mommy perspective right now).

I think about all the mothers out there who (cruelly) abandon or murder their children.  Then I think about all the women out there who’s deepest longing is to have their own children.  And it just makes me want to cry.  How in the world can someone hurt a helpless baby?  Or look into the eyes of a toddler while they’re drowning?  Or listen to the screams of a child in pain….. and not feel an overwhelming desire to STOP what they’re doing to them?  Lawyers can come up with defenses (“excuses”) for these people if they want, but for me, I’ll never feel any empathy – or pity – on someone who intentionally hurts a child.


27
Jan 08

Investing for Babies and Kids

Many of you who know me know of my love of investing and saving for the future.  I’ve had a 403b retirement account since I was 21 (go me!), my husband has his 401k, and we also have a ROTH IRA.  A plan to have our home mortgage paid off in 10-12 years is in the works, and we are currently studying up on owning & investing in rental properties (preferably 10+ unit apartments) and land. 

So, for now, our far-down-the-road futures seem to be taken care of.  Maybe we’ll retire when we’re 45?  :)  

Yet, with all of our planning, we are behind on investing for our child.  I’ve researched investing plans, and at one time was going to open up a Coverdell until  I realized you had to have a social security number for the child in question.  And of course, since we had no children born yet, I couldn’t provide one.  So things just slipped into the back corner.

Now, with the birth looming in 3 short months, we’ve decided to get on the ball with Little Jack’s savings.   Over the past few weeks we’ve scrounged for change in all sorts of odd places, emptied our piggy banks, and stashed away any cash or checks presented to us at baby showers or “for the baby”.  

Then we opened a high interest savings account and plopped in a total of $147.50 for our baby.   It’s not much, but it’s a start, right?

The plan now is to continue with contributions to it until it reaches the minimum amount required to open a mutual fund for him at our brokerage, T ROWE PRICE.  It’s undecided now as to what type of account we will use.  For those of you who are unfamiliar with ways to invest for your child’s future, I’ll go over what I’ve learned.

High Interest Savings Account

  • Best % rates are found with online accounts (HSBC, ING Direct, Emigrant Direct)
  • Good for short term, but won’t earn much in the long run
  • No risk, FDIC insured, won’t lose capital
  • Interest rates fluctuate over the years, but typically remain low
  • Money can be taken out at any time
  • Interest is taxed
  • No special rules apply to use

529 College Savings Account

  • Tax-free growth (when conditions are met*)
  • Money must be used for college expenses to be tax free
  • Money is typically invested in the stock market…
  • …Riskier investments, possible loss of capital
  • Research is needed to determine the best investment choices (stocks, mutual funds, bonds)
  • Weighted / Timed mutual funds are available to coincide with your child’s age (aggressive growth at first, then remodeled for more conservative capital retention as your child approaches college age)
  • Owned by the Parent (which is great for financial aid considerations)
  • Many states provide their own acounts with great benefits
  • Transferrable to another child
  • Transferrable back to the parent if child doesn’t attend college

Custodial Account

  • UTMA (Uniform Transfer to Minors Act)
  • Opened in the child’s name & SSN
  • Parents are custodians of the account until child reaches 21
  • Can be used by the parent to provide provisions to the child
  • Child takes posession at age 21 and then can spend as he sees fit
  • Under age 14, distributions are taxed under the Kiddie Tax Provision
  • Counts heavily against the child for college financial aid

Pre-Paid College Account

  • Operates like a 529 Account
  • Allows you to lock in today’s tuition rates to pay for tuition in 18 years!
  • Helps you beat the typical 6% college tuition yearly inflation rate
  • Considered a parental asset (thanks to the 2006 Pension Protection Act)
  • Tied to a certain group of specific in-state public universities, or a group of private universities
  • Many states offer payment plans
  • Typically not transferable to another group

Coverdell Educational Savings Account

  • Previously known as Educational IRA
  • Works similarly to a ROTH
  • Considered a parental asset
  • Distributions are tax free for any educational use from Kindergarten to College (*Until 2010)
  • Can not be transferred back to a parent, all money eventually goes to the child
  • Difficult to coordinate with Hope & Lifetime Learning tax credits
  • Money must be withdrawn for education before child reaches 30 in order to remain tax-free
  • Has a low yearly contribution limit
  • No contributions allowed after child reaches 18

ROTH IRA

  • The individual parent is the owner
  • Has a yearly contribution limit
  • Earnings (interest / growth) are heavily taxed if withdrawn before parent reaches 59
  • Contributions (money you put in yourself) can be withdrawn tax-free  at any time because tax was paid up front before you contributed it
  • Invested in the Stock Market (Can be safe or risky, depending on your stock choices)
  • Alternative to other educational savings if college isn’t forseen in your child’s future
  • Good choice if parent is not planning on providing much money towards child’s college
  • If parent is beyond age 59, all money can be withdrawn tax-free if account has been held for 5 years
  • Remains a part of the parent’s retirement portfolio if money is not used for education

….so that’s what I know.  We were once considering a Coverdell ESA because of the ability to use it for education before college – but we’ve now learned that there is a possibility that this benefit may cease in 2010. 

I like the idea of using a ROTH as a savings vehicle, because at this time Kevin and I are undecided about how much we’d like to contribute to college costs.  We don’t want our child saddled with thousdans of dollars in student loans, but we do want to encourage them to look for grants and scholarships, along with working their own jobs.  However, if the Coverdell benefit of tax-free K-12 education distributions ends in 2010, we’ll most like end up focusing on splitting savings between the 529 Account and a regular savings account – one will be for college, another as a gift for his 21st birthday.  Hopefully by that time he will have at least some investment gumption about him and not frill it all away partying.  But if he does, that’s ok too.  Our gift to him will be just that – a gift.  He’ll learn from it one way or another (partying and losing it all, or investing and seeing it grow). 


27
Jan 08

Out of the Mouths of Moms

This morning started out great.  Dad popped by at 8:30 am to pick up our church bulletin (I am the “bulletin person” at our church) and I decided to snooze some more to give my husband a bit of alone time.

10 am rolls around, and I roll out of bed to prepare for church.  Being pregnant, the last thing you want to fiddle around with is getting all dressed up.  Luckily, our church is very low key and casual.  So… I put on a nice, comfy outfit and glanced in the mirror. 

Wash face?  Check.  Brush teeth?  Check.  Run fingers through hair?  Check.  I thought I looked ok.

Walking back into the bedroom where my husband was getting ready, I smiled at him and he winks and tosses out “Gee, I wish I looked that great when I just wake up!”   My husband has a way of knowing how to be perfectly sweet at the perfect time.

After a few minutes of watching a hallmark movie playing in our living room, we headed out to church.

Service starts at 11 am, and we were a bit early so we decided to stand around in the Lobby talking to my uncle (the pastor) and my parents.  I looked at my mom and smiled.

And what did she do?  She raised her eyebrow at me, grinned….

…and said…

“Uh, you need to brush your hair don’t you?”

Not one “Hey, Hi, How ya doin, How’s little Jack?”…. Nothin’.

Hrmph.  *sniffle*

Talk about making me self concious!  And what do you suppose happens next?  Our music director, Ms. Jean, walks up to me and asks for me to handle the overhead powerpoint music display.  The overhead powerpoint music display that happens to be front and center, right behind the pulpit.  The overhead powerpoint music display that happens to be front and center, right behind the pulpit that requires pre-programming before the service in order to get all of the songs ready for 11 am start time.  I had to go up immediately.

…sigh…